Readers Respond: Advice on Balancing Work and Family Life
Many
women start businesses so that they can work from home and spend more time with
their families. But as the demands of the business grow it is easy to feel
pulled between work and family. Do you have tips for other women on how you
balance running a business with the needs and demands your family has, too?
Balancing Work and Family
Life
Prioritize. Always listen
to your children and make them feel wanted and be their sounding board. As they
grow older make them slowly responsible for their own lives. Allow them to
learn from their mistakes as you learn from your mistakes. It really helps to
have an understanding husband. Take a few hours off in the week to indulge
yourself, maybe meet up with old classmates, or go to a spa, or engage yourself
in your favorite sport or hobby to rejuvenate yourself.
—Guest Mamatha
Advice on balancing work
and family
I agree with this idea,
that it .is important because family is the first priority. Your family must
happy every day but business can be produce money for your family. The key of
balancing is communication.
—Guest Hirodona
Involve the Kids
Forget "balance"
in the traditional sense. As adults, kids will need to be flexible. Stick to a
schedule as much as possible, but when dinner is late, don't just serve it
late, explain to your kids why you need to work and ask them to pitch in by
washing veggies or even heating up soup. They will adapt better to schedule
changes when you involve them!
—Guest Not-A-9-5-Mom
No Balance
I do not think there is
such a thing as balancing both. One will always come in second place. You just
have to decide in the moment what your priorities are.
—Guest Anonymous
Think Carefully
Having a business is a
lot like having a baby. Conception is work (but fun!), growing a business and
giving birth are only the beginning. As soon as you launch the business it
needs a lot of time and attention or it will get into trouble! I think it is
almost impossible to start a business while trying to start a family. Someone
will suffer - usually the poor overworked mom who cannot give everything to
everyone all the time!
—Guest WorkingGal5
I Agree...
I agree with Kathy
Clark's comment. You have to know your life priorities - not just the ones in
business! God, family, work...
—iwaumtb
Be Professional
Always be professional.
Speak clearly, and conduct yourself as a pro. You are the expert, that is why
they use you. In all your dealings, you set the tone, no matter how others act
or treat you. Insist on being treated well and treat others that way. To often,
when we work from home, it is not seen as a "real" business. Being in
the arts, I am dealing with a double whammy here, to be seen as a real,
professional person both as a home business and as a business in the arts.
—StarrpointHost01
Keep Priorities in Order
I started a business from
home and learned this quote from Mary Kay Ash, founder of Mary Kay...
"God(Faith) first, family second and career third." It helps to keep
life in perspective.
—Guest Kathy Clark
One Day Per Month
I schedule a one day a
month where I do nothing but stuff with my two children. We might back
something or have a picnic. It is usually simple stuff that is not exhausting
(because I am already tired) like long day trips and all-day shoppathons. They
seem to appreciate that they have my attention and participation rather than
just my peripheral attention.
—Guest Aimee
Rule of thumb
I am operating my
business from home since 2002. I work with one rule of thumb - "Operate as
if you are reporting for work at another location." I start my day at 8:
30 am and end at 5:00 pm. Those hours are devoted to the business.
—Guest Esther
Load management
There's a picture in my
office with these words:"I resign as general manager of the
universe." I now look at what are the tasks that ONLY I can do and what
can be given away to my children or spouse. We chart out a week with everyone
assigned duties. It means giving up the idea that everything has to be done MY
way. I've also given away toxic clients. Know how much time and energy some
clients take. In the long run, focusing your skill on finding and keeping good
clients is more effective. Lastly, know what renews your energy. Ten minutes in
the sunshine with only the sound wind chimes refocuses me.
—Guest Eileen McDargh
Mom Skill 101 - Give
Yourself a Time Out
My kids get time outs to
regroup when they are out of control. When I am overwhelmed and feeling out of
control I give myself a timeout by taking a 10 minute break. Usually it is just
a trip to the backyard to stretch, breath, and say, "calm down, you'll get
through this!" But getting away from a problem is often the only way to
get back in control of it!
—Guest MissesVirginia


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